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Chapter 82: About Revealing Confidences

Chapter Introduction

۸۲ ـ باب في حفظ السر

Translation: Allah said:

الْقُرْآنُ الْكَرِيمُسُورَةُ الإِسۡرَاءِ (17:34)
وَلَا تَقْرَبُوا مَالَ الْيَتِيمِ إِلَّا بِالَّتِي هِيَ أَحْسَنُ حَتَّىٰ يَبْلُغَ أَشُدَّهُ ۚ وَأَوْفُوا بِالْعَهْدِ ۖ إِنَّ الْعَهْدَ كَانَ مَسْئُولًا
( سُورَةُ الإِسۡرَاءِ (17:34) )

Translation: " And come not near to the orphan's property except to improve it, until he attains the age of full strength. And fulfill (every) covenant. Verily, the covenant, will be questioned about. " (17: 34)

۳۱۹- عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ الخُدْرِي قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُوَلَاللَّهِ : إِنَََََّّّّّْ شَرِّ النَّاسَ عِندَ اللَّهِ مِنْزِلَةً يَوْمَ القِيَامَةِ الرّجُلُ يُفْضِي إِلَى امْرَأَتِهِ ، وَتُفْضِي إِلَيْهِ ثُمَََّّّ يَنْشُرُ

Translation: The Messenger of Allah said as:

Hadith 319: Hadith 319

319. Narrated by Abu-Sa'eed Al-Khudri Allah's Messenger said: " The worst of people in position before Allah on the Day of Resurrection is the man who has intercourse with his wife, and she with him, and then he spreads her secrets. " (Muslim)

Hadith 320: Hadith 320

۳۲۰- عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا قَالَ : تَأَيٌُِّّّمَتْ حَفْصَةُ بِنْتُ عُمَرَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا مِنْ خَنَيْسِ بْن حُذَافَةَ السَّهْمِي ، وَكَانَ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ قَدْ شَهِدَ بَدْرًا ، تُوُفِّيَ بِالمَدِينَةِ ، قالَ عُمَرُ : فَلَقِيتُ عُثُمَّانَ بْنَ عَفَّانَ ، فَعَرَضْتُ عَلَيْهِ حَفْصَةَ ، فَقُلْتُ : إِنََََّّّّْ شئت أنكَحْتُكَ حَفْصَةَ بِئْتَ عُمَرَ ، قَالَ : سَأَنْظُرُ فِي أَمْرِي ، فَلَبِثْتُ لَيَالِي ، فَقَالَ : قَدْ بَدَا لِي أَن لَا أَتَزَوَجَ يَوْمِي هَذَا قَالَ عُمَرُ
فَلَقِيتُ أَبَا بَكْرٍ ، فَقُلْتُ : إِنْ شِئْتَ أَنْكَحْتُكَ حَفْصَةَ بِنْتَ عُمَرَ ، فَصَمَتَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ فَلَمْ يَرْجَعْ إِلَيَّ شَيْئًا ، فَكُنْتُ عَلَيْهِ أَوْجَدَ مِنِّْي عَلَى عُثُمَّانَ ، فَلَبِثْتُ لَيَالِيَ ثُمَََّّّ خَطَبَهَا رَسُوَلَاللَّهِ صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَأَنْكَحْتُهَا إِيَّاهُ ، فَلَقِيني أبُو بَكْرٍ فَقَالَ : لَعَلَّكَ وَجَدْتَ عَلَيْ حِينَ عَرَضْتَ عَلَيَّ حَفْصَةَ فَلَمْ أَرْجِعْ إِلَيْكَ قُلْتُ : نَعَمْ ، قَالَ : فَإِنَّهُ لَمْ يَمْنَعْنِي أَنْ أَرْجِعَ إِلَيْكَ فِيمَا عَرَضتَ إِلَّا أَنِّي قَدْ عَلِمْتُ أَن رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَدْ ذَكَرَهَا ، فَلَمْ أَكُن لأُفْشِيَ سِرّ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ، وَلَوْ تَرَكَهَا لَقَبِلْ

Translation: 320. Narrated Abdullah ibn Omar: ' Omar ibn Al-Khattab said: " When (my daughter) Hafsa ibnt Omar lost her husband Khonays ibn Hozafa Al-Sahmi, who was one of the companions of Allah's Messenger who had fought in the battle of Badr and had died in Madina, I met Othman ibn Affan and offered her to him in marriage saying: ' If you wish, I will marry Hafsa bint Omar to you, ' At that, he said: ' I will think it over. I waited for a few days and then he said to me: ' I am of the opinion that I shall not marry at present. ' Then I met Abu-Bakr and said: ' If you wish, I will marry you to Hafsa bint Omar. ' Abu-Bakr kept silent and did not give me any reply. I became angrier with him than I was with Othman. Some days later, Allah's Messenger ﷺ asked for her hand in marriage and I married her to him. Later on Abu-Bakr met me and said: ' Perhaps you were angry with me when you offered me Hafsa in marriage and I gave no reply to you? ' I said: ' Yes. ' Abu-Bakr said: ' Nothing prevented me from accepting your offer except that I learnt that Allah's Messenger had referred to the issue of Hafsa and I did not want to disclose the secret of Allah's Messenger, but had he (the Prophet given her up I would surely have accepted her. " " " " (Bukhari)

۳۲۱- حديث عَائِشَةَ ، وَفَاطِمَةَ عَلَيْهَا السّلامُ عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ، أَمْ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ قَالَتْ : إِنَّا كُنَا ، أَزْوَاجَ النَّبِيََََُُِِّّّّّّّّ ، عِندَهُ جَمِيعًا لَمْ تُغَادَرْ مِنَّا وَاحِدَةٌ فَأَقْبَلَتْ فَاطِمَةً عَلَيْهَا السّلامُ تَمْشِي ، لَا ، وَالٍلهِ مَا تَخفَى مِشْيَتهَا مِنْ مَشيَةِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَلَمَّا رَآهَا رَحَبَ قَالَ : مَرْحَبًا بِابْنَتِي ، ثُمّ أَجْلَسَهَا عَنْ يَمِينِهِ أَوْ عَنْ شِمَالِهِ ثُمَّ سَارَهَا فَبَكَتْ بُكَاءً شَدِيدًا فَلَمَّا رَأَى حُزنَهَا سَارَهَا الثَّانِيَةَ ، فَإِذَا هِيَ تَصْحَكَ فَقُلْتُ لَهَا ، أَنَا مِنْ بَيْنَ نِسَائِهِ : خَصَكَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ، بِالسّرَ مِنْ بَيْنِنَا ، ثُمَّ أَنْتِ تَبْكِينَ فَلَمَّا قَامَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ، سَأَلْتُهَا عَمّا سَارَك قَالَت مَا كُنتُ لَأُفْشِيَ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ سرهُ فَلَمَّا تُوْفِي قُلْتَ لَهَا : عَزَمْتُ عَلَيْكَ ، بَمَا لِي عَلَيْكَ مِنْ الْحَقِّ ، لَمّا أخبرتني قالت : أما الآنَ ، فَنَعَمْ ، فَأَخْبَرَتْنِي ، قَالَتْ : أَمَا حِينَ سَارَنِي فِي الْأَمْرِ الأَوَّلَ ، فَإِنَّهُ أَخْبَرَنِي : أَن جِبْرِيلَ كَانَ يُعَارِضَهُ بِالْقُرْآنِ كُلَّ سَنَةٍ مَرَّةً ، وَإِنَّهُ قَدْ عَارَضَنِي بِهِ الْعَامَ ، مَرتَيْنِ ، وَلا أَرَى الْأَجَلَ إِلَّا قَدِ اقْتَرَبَ ، فَاتَّقِي اللَّهُ وَاصْبِرِي ، فَإِنِّي نِعَمٍّ السَّلَفُ أَنَا لَك قَالَتْ : فَبَكَيْتُ بُكَائِي الَّذِي رَأَيٌُّّت فَلَمَّا رَأَى عي سَارَنِي الثَّانِيَةَ ، قَالَ : يَا فَاطِمَةُ أَلاَ تَرْضَيْنَ أَنْ تَكُونِي سَيِّدَةَ نِسَاءِ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ ، أَوْ سَيِّدَةَ نِسَاءِ هَذِهِ الأمة أخرجه البخاري

Translation: .321. Narrated A'isha, may Allah be pleased with her, the Mother of the Believers: " We, the wives of the Prophet, were all sitting with the Prophet and none of us had left when Fatema came walking, and by Allah, her gait was very similar to that of Allah's Messenger. When he saw her, he bid welcome to her, saying: " Welcome, my daughter! " Then he made her sit on his right or his left, and confided something to her, whereupon she wept bitterly. When he noticed her sorrow, he confided something else to her for a second time, and she started laughing. Only I from among the Prophet's wives said to her: " (O Fatema) Allah's Messenger selected you from among us for the confidential talk and still you weep? " When Allah's Messenger got up (and went away), I asked her: " What did he confide to you? " She said: " I couldn't disclose a secret of Allah's Messenger ﷺ . " After his death, I asked her: " I beseech you earnestly by what right I have on you, to tell me (that confidential talk) which the Prophet had with you. " She said: " As you ask me now, yes, (I will tell you). " She told me, saying " " When he talked to me secretly the first time, he said that Gabriel used to review the Koran with him once every year. He added: ' But this year he reviewed it with me twice and therefore I think that the time of my death has approached. So, be afraid of Allah, and be patient, for I am the best predecessor for you (in the Hereafter). 155 Fatema added: " So I wept as you (A'isha) saw. And when, the Prophet saw me in that sorrowful state, he confided the second secret to me, saying: ' O Fatema! Will you not be pleased that you will be the chief of all the believing women (or chief of the women of this nation i.e. my followers.). 3333 (Bukhari)