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Chapter 41: About the Forbiddance of Being Undutiful to Parents

Chapter Introduction

٤١ ـ باب في تحريم العقوق وقطيعة الرحم

Translation: Allah said:

الْقُرْآنُ الْكَرِيمُسُورَةُ مُحَمَّدٍ (47:22)
فَهَلْ عَسَيْتُمْ إِن تَوَلَّيْتُمْ أَن تُفْسِدُوا فِي الْأَرْضِ وَتُقَطِّعُوا أَرْحَامَكُمْ أُولَٰئِكَ الَّذِينَ لَعَنَهُمُ اللَّهُ فَأَصَمَّهُمْ وَأَعْمَىٰ أَبْصَارَهُمْ
( سُورَةُ مُحَمَّدٍ (47:22) )

Translation: " Would you then, if you were given the authority, do mischief in the land, and sever your ties of kinship? * Such are they whom Allah has cursed, so that He has made them deaf and blinded their sight. (47: 22-23) And

الْقُرْآنُ الْكَرِيمُسُورَةُ الرَّعۡدِ (13:25)
وَالَّذِينَ يَنقُضُونَ عَهْدَ اللَّهِ مِن بَعْدِ مِيثَاقِهِ وَيَقْطَعُونَ مَا أَمَرَ اللَّهُ بِهِ أَن يُوصَلَ وَيُفْسِدُونَ فِي الْأَرْضِ ۙ أُولَٰئِكَ لَهُمُ اللَّعْنَةُ وَلَهُمْ سُوءُ الدَّارِ
( سُورَةُ الرَّعۡدِ (13:25) )

Translation: “ And those who break the Covenant of Allah, after its ratification, and sever what Allah has commanded to be joined (i.e. they sever the bond of kinship and are not good to their relatives), and work mischief in the land, on them is the curse (i.e. they will be far away from Allah's Mercy), and for them is the unhappy (evil) home (i.e. Hell). * " (13:25) And

الْقُرْآنُ الْكَرِيمُسُورَةُ الإِسۡرَاءِ (17:23)
وَقَضَىٰ رَبُّكَ أَلَّا تَعْبُدُوا إِلَّا إِيَّاهُ وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ إِحْسَانًا ۚ إِمَّا يَبْلُغَنَّ عِندَكَ الْكِبَرَ أَحَدُهُمَا أَوْ كِلَاهُمَا فَلَا تَقُل لَّهُمَا أُفٍّ وَلَا تَنْهَرْهُمَا وَقُل لَّهُمَا قَوْلًا كَرِيمًا وَاخْفِضْ لَهُمَا جَنَاحَ الذُّلِّ مِنَ الرَّحْمَةِ وَقُل رَّبِّ ارْحَمْهُمَا كَمَا رَبَّيَانِي صَغِيرًا
( سُورَةُ الإِسۡرَاءِ (17:23) )

Translation: “ And your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him and that you should be dutiful to your parents. If one of them or both of them attain old age in your life, say not to them a word of disrespect, nor shout at them, but address them in terms of honor. * And lower unto them the wing of submission and humility through mercy, and say: " My Lord! Bestow on them Your Mercy as they did bring me up when I was young. * * " (17: 23-24)

Hadith 182: Hadith 182

۱۸۲ - حَدَّثَنَا حُمَيْدُ بنُ مَسْعَدَةَ حَدَّثَنَا بشِّرُ بْنُ الْمُفَضَلِ حَدَّثَنَا الْجُرَيْرِيُّ عَنْ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمِنْ بْنِ أَبِي بَكْرَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ أَلَا أُحَدِّتُكُمْ بِأَكِبْرٌ الْكَبَائِرِ قَالُوا بَلَى يَا رَسُولَ الله قَالَ الإشراك باللَّهِ وَعُقُوقُ الْوَالٍدَيْنِ قَالَ وَجَلَسَ وَكَانَ مُتَّكنًا فَقَالَ وَشَهَادَةُ الزُّور أَوْ قَولُ الزُورِ فَمَا زَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَقُولُهَا حَتَّى قُلْنَا لَيْتَهُ سَكَتَ قَالَ وَفِي الْبَاب عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ قَالَ أَبو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ وَأَبُو بَكْرَةَ اسْمُهُ نُفَيْعُ بْنُ الْحَارِثِ

Translation: 182. Narrated Abu-Bakra: ' The Prophet said thrice: " Should I tell you about the most dangerous of the major sins? " They said: " Yes, O Allah's Messenger! " He said: " To join others in worship with Allah and to be undutiful to one's parents. " The Prophet ﷺ was reclining, then sat erect and said: " Particularly, avoid perjury. " Abu-Bakra said: " The Messenger of Allah ﷺ kept on repeating this many times until we said (to ourselves): " Would it be that he would keep silent. "

Hadith 183: Hadith 183

۱۸۳ - حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ بْنُ حُمَيْدٍ حَدَّثَنَا يُونُسُ بْنُ مُحَمَّد حَدَّثَنَا اللَّيْثُ بْنُ سَعْدِ عَنْ هشام بن سَعْدٍ عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ زَيْدِ بْنِ مُهَاجِرِ بْنِ قَنفَدَ التَّيْمِيُّ عَنْ أَبِي أمَامَةَ الْأَنَّصَارِيِّ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أُنَيْسِ الْجُهَنِيِّ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُوَلَاللَّهِ صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِنَََََّّّّّْ مِنْ أَكِبْرٌ الكبَائِرِ الشرك باللَّهِ وَعُقُوقِ الْوَالُدٍّيْنِ وَالْيَمِينُ الْغَمُوسُ

Translation: 183. Narrated Abdullah ibn Onays Al-Johani: ' The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: " It is of the major sins that one ascribes partners to Allah, is undutiful to parents, and utters false oaths (that dips its taker in Fire)... "

Hadith 184: Hadith 184

١٨٤ - حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ حَدَّثَنَا اللَّيْثُ بْنُ سَعْدِ عَن ابْنِ الْهَادِ عَنْ سَعْدِ بْنِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ
عَنْ حُمَيْدِ بْنِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمِنْ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ ابْنِ عَمْرُو قَال : قَالَ رَسُول الله صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ مِنْ الْكَبَائِرِ أَنَّ يَشْتُمَ الرَّجُلُ وَالِدَيْهِ قَالُوا يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهُ ) . وَهَلْ يَشْتُمُ الرَّجُلُ وَالِدَيْهِ قَالَ نَعَمْ يَسُبُّ أَبَا الرَّجُلِ فَيَشتُمْ أَبَاهُ ويَشْتُمُ أُمَّهُ فَيَسْبُ أُمَّهُ قَالَ أبو عيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ

Translation: 184. Narrated Abdullah ibn Amr, may Allah be pleased with her: Allah's Messenger said: " It is one of the greatest sins that a man should curse his parents. " It was asked: " O Allah's Messenger! How does a man curse his parents? " The Prophet said: " The man abuses the father of another man then, the latter abuses the father of the former and abuses his mother. "

Hadith 185: Hadith 185

١٨٥ - عَنِ المَغِيرَةِ بْنِ شُعْبَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهِ عَنْهُ قَالَ : قَالَ النَّبِيََََُُِّّّّّّّ صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ : ( إِنَََََّّّّّْ اللَّهَ حَرمَ عَلَيْكُمْ : عُقُوقَ الأَمْهَاتِ وَوَادَ البَنَاتِ ، ومِنْعَ وَهَاتِ . وَكَرِهَ لَكُمْ : قِيلَ وَقَالَ وَكَثْرَةَ السَّوَالٍ ، وَإِضَاعَةَ المَالِ ) . رواه البخاري

Translation: 185. Narrated Al-Mogheera ibn Sho'aba: ' The Prophet said: “ Allah has forbidden for you to be undutiful to your mothers, to bury your daughters alive, to withhold the rights of the poor and others, and to beg from men. And Allah has hated for you to gossip (sinful and vain talk like backbiting etc.), to ask too many questions, (in disputed religious issues, etc.), and He forbade you to waste wealth (by extravagance with lack of wisdom and thinking etc.). " (Bukhari)