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Chapter 38: About Advising One's Family Member to obey Allah

Chapter Introduction

باب فى نصح الرجل أهله بطاعة اللَّهُ )
الْقُرْآنُ الْكَرِيمُسُورَةُ التَّحۡرِيمِ (66:6)
يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا قُوا أَنفُسَكُمْ وَأَهْلِيكُمْ نَارًا وَقُودُهَا النَّاسُ وَالْحِجَارَةُ عَلَيْهَا مَلَائِكَةٌ غِلَاظٌ شِدَادٌ لَّا يَعْصُونَ اللَّهَ مَا أَمَرَهُمْ وَيَفْعَلُونَ مَا يُؤْمَرُونَ
( سُورَةُ التَّحۡرِيمِ (66:6) )

Translation: “ And order your family to perform the prayer punctually and be patient in offering them (the prayers). We do not ask of you a provision (i.e. to give Us anything), We provide for you. And the good end (i.e. Paradise) is for the pious and the righteous persons. * " (20: 132) And

Translation: " O you who believe! Ward off from yourselves and your families the Fire whose fuel is men and stones, over which are (appointed) angels stern (and) severe, who disobey not (from executing) the commands they receive from Allah, but do what they are commanded. * " (66: 6)

Hadith 173: Hadith 173

۱۷۳ - عَنْ عُمَرَ بْنِ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ رَضِيَ اللهُ تَعَالَى عَنْهُ قَالَ : قَالَ لِي رَسُوَلَالله يَا غُلَامُ سَمَ اللهَ ، وَكُلْ ، بيمينك ، وكُلِّ مِمَا يَلِيكَ * مُتَفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ

Translation: 173. Narrated Omar ibn Abu-Salama: ' Allah's Messenger said to me: " Boy! Mention Allah's Name, eat with your right hand, and eat from what is next to you. " (Agreed upon).

Hadith 174: Hadith 174

١٧٤ - عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُما قَالَ : سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ يَقُولُ : ( كُلُّكُمْ رَاعٍ ، وَكُلُّكُمْ مَسْئُولٌ عَنْ رَعِيَتِهِ الإِمَامُ رَاعٍ وَمَسْئُولٌ عَنْ رَعِيَّتِهِ ، وَالرَّجُلُ رَاعٍ ـي في أَهْلِهِ مَسْؤُولٌ عَنْ رَعِيَّتِهِ ، وَالمَرْأَةُ رَاعِيَةٌ في بَيْتِ زَوْجِهَا وَمَسْئُولَةٌ عَنْ عَيْتِهَا ، وَالخَادِمُ رَاعٍ في مالِ سَيّدِهِ وَمَسؤولٌ عَنْ رَعِيَّتِهِ ) قَالَ : وَحَسِبْتُ أَنَّ قَدْ قَالَ : ( وَالرّجُلُ رَاعٍ فِي مَالِ أَبِيهِ وَمَسْئُولٌ عَنْ رَعِيَّتِهِ ، وَكُلُّكُمْ رَاعٍ وَمَسْئُولٌ عَنْ رعيته ) . رواه البخاري

Translation: 174. Narrated Ibn Omar: ' I heard Allah's Messenger saying: “ All of you are guardians and responsible for your wards and the things under your care. The imam (i.e. ruler) is the guardian of his subjects and is responsible for them. A man is the guardian of his family and is responsible for them. A woman is the guardian of her husband's house and is responsible for it. A servant is the guardian of his master's belongings and is responsible for them. " I thought that Ibn Omar said: ' I think the Prophet also said: " A man is the guardian of his father's property and is responsible for it. All of you are guardians and responsible for your wards and the things under your care. " (Bukhari)