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Chapter 143: About the Words One should say to a Deceased Person

Chapter Introduction

١٤٣ - باب ما يقال عند الميت وما يقوله من مات له ميت

Hadith 473: Hadith 473

٤٧٣ - عَنْ أَسَامَة بْن زَيْدٍ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُمَا قَالَ : أَرْسَلَت ابْنَةُ النَّبِيََََُُِِّّّّّّّّ صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِلَيْهِ : إِنَّ ابْنًا لِي قُبِضَ فَائْتِنَا ، فَأَرْسَلَ يُقْرِئُ السَّلَامَ ، وَيَقُولُ : إِنَّ اللَّهَ مَا أَخَذَ وَلَهُ مَا أَعْطَى ، وَكُلُّ شَيْءٍ عِنْدَهُ بِأَجَلٍ مُسَمًّى ، فَلْتَصْبِرْ وَلْتَحْتَسِبْ . فَأَرْسَلَتْ إِلَيْهِ تُقْسِمُ عَلَيْهِ لَيَأْتِيَنَّهَا ، فَقَامَ وَمَعَهُ : سَعْدُ بْنُ عُبَادَةَ ، وَمَعَاذُ بْنُ جَبَلٍ ، وَأُبَيُّ بْنُ كَعْبٍ وَزَيْدُ بْنُ ثَابِتٍ ، وَرِجَالٌ ، فَرُفِعَ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهِ الصَّبِيُّ وَنَفْسُهُ تَتَقَعْقَعُ ، قَالَ : حَسِبْتُهُ أَنَّهُ قَالَ : كَأَنَّهَا شَنٌّ فَفَاضَتْ عَيْنَاهُ ، فَقَالَ سَعْدٌ : يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهُمَّا هَذَا ؟
قَالَ : : ( هَذِهِ رَحْمَةٌ جَعَلَهَا اللَّهِ في قُلُوبِ عِبَادِهِ ، وَإِنَََََّّّّّْمَا يَرْحَمُ اللَّهُ مِنْ عِبَادِهِ الرُّحَمَاءَ ) . رواه البخاري

Translation: 473. Narrated Osama ibn Zayd: ' The daughter of the Prophet sent (a courier) to the Prophet ﷺ requesting him to come as her child was dying, but the Prophet returned the envoy and told him to convey his greeting to her. He said: " Whatever Allah takes is for Him and whatever He gives is for Him, and everything with Him has a limited fixed term (in this world) and so she should be patient and hope for Allah's Reward. " She again sent for him, swearing that he should come. The Prophet ﷺ got up and so did Sa'ad ibn Obada, Mo'az ibn Jabal, Obayy ibn Ka'ab, Zayd ibn Thabit, and some other men. The child was brought to Allah's Messenger ﷺ while his breath was disturbed (the sub-narrator thinks that Osa mah added: ' He was gasping as if it was a leather waterskin '). At that the eyes of the Prophet ﷺ started shedding tears. Sa'ad said: " O Allah's Messenger what is this? " He replied: " It is a mercy which Allah has lodged in the heart of His slaves, and Allah is Merciful only to those of His servants who are merciful (to others). " (Bukhari)