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Riyad-us-Saliheen

Chapter 85: About Speaking Kind Words and Smiling at Others

Chapter Introduction

٨٥ ـ - باب فى استحباب طيب الكلام وطلاقة الوجه

Translation: Allah said:

الْقُرْآنُ الْكَرِيمُسُورَةُ الحِجۡرِ (15:88)
لَا تَمُدَّنَّ عَيْنَيْكَ إِلَىٰ مَا مَتَّعْنَا بِهِ أَزْوَاجًا مِّنْهُمْ وَلَا تَحْزَنْ عَلَيْهِمْ وَاخْفِضْ
( سُورَةُ الحِجۡرِ (15:88) )

Translation: " Look not with your eyes ambitiously at what We have bestowed on certain classes of them (the disbelievers), nor grieve over them. And lower your wings for the believers (be courteous to the fellow-believers). * " (15: 88) And

الْقُرْآنُ الْكَرِيمُسُورَةُ آلِ عِمۡرَانَ (3:159)
فَبِمَا رَحْمَةٍ مِّنَ اللَّهِ لِنتَ لَهُمْ ۖ وَلَوْ كُنتَ فَظًّا غَلِيظَ الْقَلْبِ لَانفَضُّوا مِنْ حَوْلِكَ ۖ فَاعْفُ عَنْهُمْ وَاسْتَغْفِرْ لَهُمْ وَشَاوِرْهُمْ فِي الْأَمْرِ ۖ فَإِذَا عَزَمْتَ فَتَوَكَّلْ عَلَى اللَّهِ ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ يُحِبُّ الْمُتَوَكِّلِينَ
( سُورَةُ آلِ عِمۡرَانَ (3:159) )

Translation: “ And due to the Mercy of Allah, you dealt with them gently. And had you been severe and harsh-hearted, they would have broken away from around you, so pass over (their faults), and ask (Allah's) Forgiveness for them, and consult with them in affairs. Then when you have taken a decision, put your trust in Allah, certainly Allah loves those who put their trust (in Him). (3: 159)

Hadith 326: Hadith 326

٣٢٦ - عَنْ عَدِي بْن حَاتِمٍ رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ : كُنْتُ عِنْدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَجَاءَهُ رَجُلَانِ ، أَحَدُهُما يَشْكُو الْعَيْلَةَ ، وَالٍآخَرُ يَشكُو قَطَّعَ السَّبِيلِ ، فَقَالَ رَسُوَلَالله : ( أَمَا قَطْعُ السَّبِيلِ : فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَأْتِي عَلَيْكَ إِلَّا قَلِيلٌ ، حَتَّى تَخْرُجَ الْعِيرُ إِلَى مَكَّةَ بِغَيْرِ خَفِيرٍ ، وَأَمَا الْعَيْلَةُ : فَإِن السَّاعَةَ لَا تَقُومُ ، حَتَّى يَطُوفَ أَحَدُكُمْ بِصَدَقَتِهِ ، لَا يَجِدُ مِنْ يَقْبَلُهَا مِنْهُ ، ثُمّ لَيَقِفَنَ أَحَدُكُمْ بَيْنَ يَدَيِ اللَّهِ ، لَيْسَ بَيْنَهُ وَبَيْنَهُ حِجَابٌ ، وَلَا تَرْجُمَانٌ يُتَرْجِمُ لَهُ ، ثُمّ لَيَقُولَنَّ لَهُ : أَلَمْ أُوتِكَ مَالًا فَلَيَقُولَنَّ : بَلَى ، ثُمّ لَيَقُولُ : أَلَمْ أَرْسَلْ إِلَيْكَ رَسُولًا فَلْيَقُولَنَ : بَلَى ، فَيَنْظُرُ عَنْ يَمِينِهِ فَلَا يَرَى إِلَّا النّارَ ، ثُمَّ يَنْظُرُ عَنْ شِمَالِهِ فَلَا يَرَى إِلَّا النَّارَ ، فَلْيَتَّقِينَ أَحَدُكُمْ النَّارَ وَلَوْ بِشِقٍ تَمْرَةٍ ، فَإِنْ لَمْ يَجِدْ فَبِكَلِمَةٍ طَيِّبَةٍ ) . رواه البخاري

Translation: 326. Narrated Uday ibn Hatem: ' While I was sitting with Allah's Messenger ﷺ two people came to him, one of them complained about his poverty and the other complained about the prevalence of robberies. Allah's Messenger ﷺ said: " As regards stealing and robberies, there will shortly come a time when a caravan will go to Mecca (from Madina) without any guard. And regarding poverty, The Hour (the Day of Judgment) will not be established until one of you wanders about with an object to give in charity and will not find anybody to accept it. And (no doubt) each one of you will stand in front of Allah and there will be neither a screen nor an interpreter between him and Allah Allah will ask him: ' Did not I give you wealth? ' He will reply in the affirmative. Allah will further ask: ' Did not I send a Messenger to you? ' And again that person will reply in the affirmative. Then he will look to his right and he will see nothing but Hellfire and he will look to his left and will see nothing but Hellfire. So let each one of you save himself from Hellfire, even by giving half of a dried-date (in charity). And if you do not find a half of a dried-date (to give in charity), then (you can do it through saying) a kind word to your Muslim brother. " (Bukhari)

Hadith 327: Hadith 327

۳۲۷- حَدَّثَنَا الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ عَلِيَّ بْنِ الأَسْوَدِ الْبَغْدَادِيُّ حَدَّثَنَا عَمْرُو بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ الْعَنْقَزِيُّ حَدَّثَنَا إِسْرَائِيلُ عَنْ صَالِحٍ بْنِ رُسُتُمَ أَبِي عَامِرِ الْخَرَّازِ عَنْ أَبِي عِمْرَانَ الْجَوْنِي عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ الصَّامِتِ عَنْ أَبِي ذَرٍّ قَالَ : قَالَ رَسُوَلَاللَّهِ صَلَّى اللّٰهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ لَا يَحقِرَنَّ أَحَدُكُمْ شَيْئًا مِنَ الْمَعْرُوفِ وَإِنْ لَمْ يَجِدْ فَلْيَلْقَ أَخَاهُ بِوَجْهِ طَلِيقٍ وَإِنِ اشْتَرَيْتَ لَحْمًا أَوْ طَبَخْتَ قِدْرًا فَأَكْثِرْ مَرَقَتَهُ وَاغْرِفُ لِجَارِكَ مِنْهُ قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ وَقَدْ رَوَاهُ شُعْبَةُ عَنْ أَبِي عِمْرَانَ الْجَوْنِيِّ • الترمذى

Translation: 327. Narrated Abu-Zarr: ' The Messenger of Allah said: " Let not one of you despise a good deed (for his brother). If he did not find, let him receive his brother with a smiling face. If you buy meat and cook it, make much broth and ladle for your neighbor some of it. " (At-Termizi)